My name is Trina, I'm 39 and I was attracted to this site because I'm hopelessly hooked on this "(L Word) Lesbian Soap Opera!" I find this community of people's posts interesting and sometimes in-lightning. I have a partner named "Rae" and we have been together for seventeen years this coming March. WOW! Where does the time go when you have been blessed with a beautiful relationship with your best friend?;-} I like the show and identify with Shane the most from my younger days. She just doesn't care what other people think about her and besides the fact that she gets laid a lot she is lonely. She has such a laid back personality only making conversation when it's relevant and not a big gossiper. I broke my back some years back so I'm disabled but I used to be involved in a lot of activities. Hiking, biking, fishing, swimming, karate, etc. Now I spend a lot of time gambling professionally. I don't drink because I'm recovering but I do use a lot of medicinal Marijuana! Chronic...The best weed for patients is grown in the Great NW! ;-} Everyone take care, LightningWoman (There are three reasons why people call me "LightningWoman"...Ask me why?